How to get over the gut-wrenching embarrassment during oral? I'm a newbie when it comes to like sex and stuff. My boyfriend doesn't rush me or force me. We've been easing into it. He really enjoys going down on me and prefers it as foreplay over, giving him a bj. He's very good, and I never go unsatisfied, but I notice I tend to stifle myself ,hide my face, or close my eyes. I'm so embarrassed 😔.
I'm not sure I know how to stop being so embarrassed. It's worse post-orgasm, I literally pull away after in shame due to my reactions. I enjoy what we do, and he's very enthusiastic. it's just the fact someone is staring at me bare. Is it supposed to feel uncomfortable overcoming this ? I love him, and I want to reassure him he's doing an amazing job.