Hi everyone. I have been seeing someone since the end of December 2025. We’ve had sex 3 or 4 times only. I spoke to him about this issue and he blew it up but then said he will initiate it more, that night we had unbelievable sex. Now it’s just back to how he usually is? I told him it’s not just about sex to me, it’s the feeling of being desired, intimacy and I want to satisfy my partner because I care for him. I’m always touching him and giving him hints, sorry to be so straightforward but I spend a lot of time giving him a b***j** and he says it’s the best but I feel no effort given back to me. I cook and clean his house and make it nice when he finishes work and he always wants me to come over but I’m starting to feel like a room mate or one of his boys because I can’t tell the difference these days as we’re not intimate, we barely kiss and cuddle. Why does he want me over all the time if he’s going to treat me like a room mate? I dress up sexy, I wear red lingerie and he falls asleep, I’m an attractive woman not to sound big headed but he knows this issue is affecting my self esteem and confidence. I have never had this issue before so I’m unsure what to do but we don’t even cuddle in bed now he just goes asleep but he sees no issue. He’s always worried about mess on the sheets too, I’m not used to this as not to sound big headed but I’ve never had to ask a man for intimacy and I don’t want to be doing it now. Without intimacy I can’t fall inlove or feel close, physical touch is a massive deal to me and I’ve already spoke to him about this and I’m tired of waking up feeling unwanted. What shall I do? He wants me to stay until Tuesday but this point I just don’t see the point. He’s on Xbox with his boys so why would he even want me around? Feels like he wants a companion. I understand he gets tired but I work two jobs and I still make effort for him. I’m also 26 and he’s 30 so we’re not lacking too much energy. Any advice?x