so i'm (27M) trying to date to find a longterm relationship. only through dating apps as outside of work, i dont really meet a lot of new people.

the last girl i've been texting is giving mixed signals. went on a date last monday, all went well and she even said she had a good time, but as of wednesday, i feel like she is getting distant or not really texting as much as before. it feels like i have to start the conversation all the time, if i dont ask question or text first, i dont think she would text.

i know that i overthink a lot, so her not texting a lot today really makes me feel like she is not intrested anymore. i did ask if she wants to go on another date and she actually said yes to it which just makes me even more confused. so i guess we have a second date planned not this weekend but the next. but yeah, the lack of texting from her side or starting conversation makes me feel like she will cancel on me later this week or something.

should i just stop texting her and see if she text me? or what should i do?


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