I’ve (32M) been seeing a woman (32F) for about 3 weeks and I’m trying to figure out where the energy shifted.
– The Connection: We talked every day for the first two weeks (1-3 exchanges a day).
– The Dates: Two great dates. Good chemistry, shared values, and a solid kiss at the end of the second date.
– The Logistics: Because of pre-planned travel and living an hour apart, our 3rd date had to be scheduled 2 weeks out.
– The Shift: before the 2nd date she started taking 1–3 days to respond (if I initiated again – which I would by checking in or sharing something).
• The "Off-Grid" Warning: She mentioned early on that she sometimes "goes off-grid" but always finds her way back (I don’t know what this means? Days? Months?)
• The Ghost/slow fade?: She just got back from a weekend trip. On Monday, I let her know my trip abroad was finalized for next week and if I could steal her for dinner this Friday if her schedule allows (while mentioning that I’m still a go for our date Sunday) since she knows I won’t be around for 2 weeks.
It’s now Tuesday afternoon and I’ve had total silence since Friday.
Would love to hear some perspectives on what went wrong! Thanks!