I M27 want to break up with my girlfriend F25. We’ve been together for a little over a year. When I first met her, she seemed put together, had a job had her own car had her own place and I was really impressed. Fast forward to now we moved up to Virginia together so I could go to school. We agreed on splitting all the bills down the middle and that has yet to happen, I’ve been working my tail off providing while going to school and she only works a part time job and only makes enough to pay her bills. She started drinking which has turned the relationship south as she uses me as an emotional punching bag due to her old trauma that she won’t seek help for. I need to find a way to let her off easily and I don’t want to immediately boot her because I want to make sure her and her dog don’t wind up on the street.