I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months, and he’s been unemployed for 7.
When we first started dating, I didn’t think much of it. I know the job market is rough. But now it’s been 7 months. He moved back in with his parents after he left his job 7 months ago, so I’m the one paying for most things. He says he applies constantly and has had interviews, but nothing past a second round.
I’m struggling because my experience has been very different. I’ve landed multiple full-time corporate jobs within weeks of applying. I don’t know if I’m being naive, if he’s not being fully honest about his effort, or if his field is genuinely this bad right now.
He has years of experience in medical sales, which makes this even more confusing. My friends and family are concerned, and honestly… so am I.
I’m just unsure what to think, or even do. Any personal experiences, advice, options, etc are welcomed.
TL;DR:
Boyfriend has been unemployed for 7 months, lives with parents, says he’s applying but can’t get past 2nd-round interviews. I’m covering expenses and don’t know if the job market is truly this bad or if something else is going on.