me (22F) and my partner (22M) Have been dating for over 2.5 years now, and we’ve lived together for one year. Over the past year, our sex life has completely depleted, and when we do have sex, it’s usually 2 days in a row when he wants it, and then he’s good for a month and he rejects me everytime i come onto him. It’s always that he’s tired, he has to work the next day, he’s sore, he has to go to bed soon, etc even though when it comes to him, it’s on his terms and i should be available (even when im running late for work) and because i have a higher sex drive than him and we barely do it, i always take the opportunity, and then i always end up regretting it because he just end up rejecting me once he’s over his little horny spout. It just makes me feel so used and unattractive because he only wants me when he feels up for it and he’s horny, but if i am he just doesn’t care and it never matters. im just not sure really how to approach this situation anymore, because the excuses i get back are just hurtful, and i feel i need to approach it in a different angle.