We have a great sex life but recently he’s been into me talking about my past sexual experiences and partners in detail. He wants details of who / how I slept with them and essentially stories. I can tell it really turns him on. I’m starting to not enjoy it because first of all, my experiences were such a long time ago, I barely remember details. And secondly, I don’t want to be thinking and trying to remember details during sex, it’s a complete turn off and doesn’t arouse me at all when my mind is so occupied and he keeps asking for details and questions. In fact, I don’t want to be recalling sex with other guys when I’m trying to have sex with him. How do I navigate? I know it really turns him on but also my stories of my past are limited too, there’s only so many to tell. It’s also a slippery slope because what if he gets upset about something after or jealous? I want to be in the moment with him, not mentally occupied thinking of yesteryear with other guys.