So the story begins around 2–3 months back when there was a new joinee in my office. She's beautiful and hot, all the boys of my office were behind her while I had no interest in her. However after a while we casually started talking and I asked her to go for clubbing with me (my intentions were being friends with her).
We went to club that day and enjoyed, however the very night she initiated making out and eventually we ended up hooking up that day which was unexpected for me since I only considered her friend. After a day or two we went out for bowling and getting drunk post which we hooked up again and she asked about what we were. I told her currently it's casual to which she accepted. However after more 3–4 days she told me she was in love with me.
Now the problem with this was she just got out of a 3 year relationship 1 month before we met and I explained to her that you still have scars from those relationship and you need to heal first before jumping into another relationship and the same was for me. Even I had gotten out of a relationship of 1.5 years and needed space to heal.
We agreed on the common ground of respecting each other's decision. Mind you she was a girl who always wanted constant attention from someone and she did accept she cannot live without someone being in her life. While for me I heal being alone and I enjoy my own company.
Fights started between us with me constantly asking for space while she constantly arguing for more time (we used to be together almost everyday but there were few days when I felt being alone and she'd fight). Fast forward, she even treated me good and did everything in her power to make me believe she was the one however I was not healed from my previous relationship and even she used to follow her ex on insta and did not even remove their photos from the feed because of which I still needed time.
After 2 months of being together I told her I will stop talking since I needed time to heal from everything which went down (also I was healing from my mother's demise which happened 2–3 months before meeting her).
When I told her to stop talking she was crying and told she wanted to be with me. After 1 month of not talking when I called her she told me she was dating someone else.
Now I wonder if I dodged a bullet or I should've treated her right and she would be loyal to me?