I put another thread on but basically he’s broken up with me and gone no contact. I initially reached out to find out what happened and if we could fix it (the next day), and a few days later asked for my things back. Nothing. Messaged again today to ask for it, still not even opening my message. I don’t know whether I need to leave it, it’s not important or irreplaceable but at this point I’m so mad at how disrespectful he’s been that it’s the principle as much as anything. I don’t feel like he should get to take anything else from me. What would you do? Do I just respect his boundary and walk away or can I get my things? (Literally a lunch box, coffee pot and a clock he gave me that was accidentally in the bag he took when he left). There was no argument, no bad feelings, no reason for the breakup and we left it we’d talk the next day and would still go to a gig together and stuff we’d got planned. Clearly not 🙄
Updating to add – Thanks all, I’m definitely not going to do anything like police/legal stuff, it’s more do I have the right to ask for it and be annoyed or is this just an acceptance part of no contact. Also the clock was a gift the other stuff was mine.