My husband and I have been together for 6 years and married for 2. If you asked me a couple years ago if I cared about my husband following hundreds of thirst traps on instagram or liking pics….i would say I wouldn’t mind too much. But here lately, when we are arguing, he will make comments about my weight and my size (I weigh 260.) After we are done arguing, he always says he’s sorry and didn’t mean to say it. On one hand, I believe him but on the other, the girls he looks at and follows don’t look like me at all. He says he loves me and he only wants to be with me but I just can’t understand how you could love me while also lusting over other girls who don’t look like me. This has been the topic of our fights and we have been fighting almost every single day now. It’s exhausting. He says that every man watches porn, every man likes and follows thirst traps. But I believe not every man does that so that’s why am I here trying to get advice on what to do. He clearly doesn’t respect the way I feel….even tho HE made my self esteem drop ever since he became verbally abusive. I have also since found a photo app on his phone and he said he keeps porn pictures in there because they are “easier to get too.” It’s an app that needs a password. I need to know that I’m not crazy and that not ALL men do this. Please help me.