I’m 28M and since I work remote & spend most of the week alone by default, I feel like I’ve become hyper aware of coming across as boring/uninteresting. I can get matches and go on dates just fine but the act of talking throughout the day just gets me in my head bad, I hate for my boring/solitary routine to be exposed for some reason.
I do much better with slower, lower stakes connections rather than girls who like to ask a lot of questions honestly. I feel like this must be a confidence thing though because I definitely wasn’t like this before.
I personally don’t mind if someone else is a tad boring tbh. But I’ve sabotaged so many almost-relationships for fear of feeling like the most boring mf in the world and I kinda don’t like that.