I saw a post on instagram about sexless marriage and I been married to my wife for twenty plus years. I made the comment I haven’t had sex in twenty years and my wife seen it and she said she was so embarrassed and said her whole family could have seen it and how could I have done that. I been pissed and hurt that we were going to have sex on my birthday but then she didn’t feel well and said we can do it on weekend which was two days away I was okay with that but when the day came and she said nothing, I brought it up and she said I am really tired I am sorry, I promise we will do it on Sunday.i bite my tongue and said okay then Sunday night came and she said I forgot and I ate too much at dinner. She broke a promise I was upset and hurt I didn’t even ask again . She just doesn’t get it I hurt too