So some context on the topic, a few weeks ago my GF was busy most of the day doing work. She works from home and we decided to face time all day because I was off. When she is incredibly busy and we FaceTime we usually just mute up and do whatever. Usually I play video games while she does her work.
This time around she was very upset we didn’t talk, just FaceTimed. It led to a small argument that spiraled a bit due to some (self admitted) stressors she had experienced in the previous days.
Ultimately though this argument of he said she said ended with me ending the FaceTime and the argument so we could take a breather and come back with a clear head. After giving her some time she ended up not answering the several calls that night when I tried reaching out.
Fast forward to recently, we squashed that argument and resolved everything. It is all water under the bridge and it was a stupid argument in the first place. However, when borrowing her phone (we are open with using eachothers phone) I couldn’t help but notice a recent call by a person that has came onto her in the past. I clicked on the details out of curiosity and found out that she was ignoring my calls that night to talk this guy until 1:30 in the morning (2 hour phone call). I’m so confused how I should feel? I am angry and upset and hurt but I don’t want to be ‘that’ guy who gets mad his GF is talking to other guys.
Additionally last time I opened their phone the most recent opened app was an empty ‘recently deleted’ tab on IMessage.
– Side note our relationship is/was great up until that. This was a one off.