There's this girl I've been meeting up with, I met her at my gym and she always makes the effort to talk to me and see how I am. We often walk back from the gym together and talk a lot. I've asked her to do stuff a few times
The first time we met she stated "A friendly coffee would be nice" so I kinda thought that would be all as just a friendly thing. The vibes were good and she was genuinely interested and the conversation flowed well. Since then we've had a coffee, a drink and last night went to watch a comedy show, we've never had them as "Dates" so to speak though.
I really really like her, her replies on social media are pretty rubbish but in person we get along really well. We've not kissed each other or anything.
Last night we went to the comedy club and we'd had a few drinks, I'm terrified to flirt/make too much of a move. I'm a bit socially awkward when it comes to dating and getting my feelings across. I don't do touch and contact too well.
I walked her home and we hugged but we've not kissed or anything, in scared I'd be to full on or she's not interested. I don't really know how to approach the subject or what to say to ask where we are at.
This is the first time I've felt like this about anyone for a long time and if I'm bluntly honest I'm scared of the rejection. I work in a high intensity healthcare environment where I normally thrive of pressure but this is absolutely terrifying.
Any advice from anyone would be great.
From a petrified guy.