TLDR at the end. we both go to music school and on 1 random day she started teasing me (cause i had to sit next to her, i didnt know yet that ill like her) saying stuff like, i know you dont understand this, you are so stupid (while blushing and giggling) and she said shes gonna repost all of my videos and if i dont follow her back *something* will happen. now mind you she is a REALLY shy girl, barely talkative. we start sharing photos on instagram and one day she leaves me 1 week on delivered and in the meantime she told a mutual friend saying like *did (my name0 get a girlfriend? he hasnt texted me in over a week?* so that may be something but the day i told that mutual friend its cause she left me on delivered, thats also the day she sent a photo back.
so time goes on we start sharing videos on tiktok for a streak and as soon as we get to like 30 she literally doesnt message me that day (probably not wanting me to post it to my story on tiktok since thats what i do with all streaks that i have) and when the streak ends, 2 days after it (ALWAYS) she starts sharing videos again.
recently i had confessed to her but her reply was, word for word *well, nice, but i dont like you that much and id like to just stay friends if you want*, i said of course i want to still be friends and i said that i have confessed to her since i had *nothing to lose*, she just read it didnt even like it for some reason (even tho she likes almost every other message).
i thought that was it and she just wants to stay friends but my sister and my crush have a mutual friend, the mutual friend told my sister that the girl i like has a crush on me too, and believe me she wouldnt lie. my sister will speak to her in 2 days about it so i get new info.
when i pulled back, i mean started messaging her, sending photos etc much slower than usual, she started replying faster and sending me more videos and stuff, its like shes putting minimum effort when she 100% knows that i wont pull back but when i do she starts putting effort. also recently she has started to match my energy, and i dont know how but after i confessed to her and she rejected me she acted like nothing even happened (no idea what that means but ok, she isnt ashamed of me nor is it embarrassing when we see eachother for both of us, again, no idea why).i do see her as long term (if it even succeeds) but i also dont know how to approach her since one day she sends like 10 videos and 1 day literally nothing shes so confusing?
TLDR: from what i probably realized, she likes me but is too scared to commit to a relationship or is scared of telling me that she likes me and i do NOT know how to approach her since were both 14 and both of us might be confused asf how things work out(or im just delusional about her liking me).