My ex and I had a pretty messy breakup. We both said some nasty things, and for a while, I thought we had both moved on. Recently, she started reaching out again like nothing happened.
The confusing part is her behavior: she’ll message me out of the blue, but if I don't reply fast enough or if the conversation doesn't go her way, she blocks me. Then, a few days later, she unblocks me and acts normal again.
Now, she just asked me if I would go on vacation with her and her friend. I’m completely baffled. Why would she invite me on a trip after everything that was said during the breakup? Does she want to get back together, or am I just a backup plan for when she's bored? I’m feeling really stuck and don't know how to handle this hot-and-cold behavior.
edit: I moved on ages ago but she tends to mess with me head