Hi everyone,
I'm an 18 year old male, and I'm really excited because tomorrow I'm going to finally going to have sex together for the first time.
I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly a month, and tomorrow will be our one month anniversary. We made an agreement that we would have sex together for the first time to commemorate our anniversary.
She is a virgin, and I'm not, but I didn't want to tell her in case it would raise any issues. My first sex experience was when I was 15, but it was more of a one night stand after getting tipsy on a night out, so I don't really remember it, and this time I'll be having sex when I'm actually in love.
Before we start, I just wanted some advice on common practices to have the best experiences:
1) I'll be undressed, but should I wear socks or go in barefoot?
2) Should I use lube? If so, how much. We plan to try anal as well, but mostly vaginal.
3) Should I apply any cologne beforehand so I smell better?
4) About how long should be go on for?
5) Recommendations for best positions? From last time I liked doggy style the most, but I'm open to trying new ones.
Also, my parents may be home. They know about our relationship, but I don't think they're anticipating us to be sexually active. I'm Asian and my parents are quite conservative, so I don't think they'll be happy if they know of us fucking in their house. Any tips to not get caught?
Regarding contraception, I wanted to use the pull out method for the first few mins to enjoy the feeling properly. After that, we'll use condoms (except for anal).
Any other tips or advice would be great! I'll update tomorrow after we're done to let you know how it went.