We have been together for 3,5 years and she is a Fearfull Avoidant if you know what that means. Four weeks ago she broke up with me for the third time after a big fight because I did not finish a wardrobe from Ikea that I bought for her that day. She attacked me physically and said bad things about me. I got angry and yelled that she was not thankful for all the things I did for her. I obviously felt bad about me getting angry especially since I know that she has PTSD but at that moment I could not stop myself. Anyways we had clearly more of a on off relationship because she would threaten with breaking up if things did not go the way she liked. I know her from college and I have helped her with a lot of things. Well one day after the break up she was already on a dating app from what I know. Anyway I am a very caring person and I always did groceries for her. After the break up I sent her a few expensive presents and flowers and things she liked. Not to buy her love but to let her know I am sorry. I know she accepted all of them but she is still ignoring everything I say. I know I didn’t do no contact because I think that is bs. But do you guys know what this could mean? She did not block me or anything like that but she is just ignoring me. And she still talks with my sister.


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