I participate in hookup culture. Not interested in a real relationship at all. I’m 33 & just want to have fun. The guys I’m talking to are looking for the same. But nothing, I mean nothing, irritates me more than a guy that has convinced himself my sole purpose in life is to ruin him.
You know the guy. He’s dying to meet you. You’re totally into him. But he’s scared to give you his number. Or share his address. Or tell you anything too personal about himself for fear you will use it against him. Why are we here? What are we doing? I’m not even talking about the scumbags with secret families & shit. I mean the genuine guys that truly have nothing to hide. I get it. Some girl hurt you in the past. Then maybe online dating isn’t for you anymore if the trust issues are this bad. Just saying.
Perfect example, I’ve been talking to a guy for weeks online. On Friday we met up in person at a neutral public location & said hell yeah, let’s do this. We’ve made plans to meet tomorrow & have some fun at his place. I just texted him to confirm if we’re still on & to ask for the address. “Just call me tomorrow & I’ll guide you there” WEEWOOWEEWOO! I’m sorry? Like you know I can put 2 & 2 together. When I get there I can place the numbers on your house & name of the street together. Meaning I’m going to see your address when I get there anyways. What’s the big deal? I’m not going to pop up on him between now & our agreed upon time tomorrow. I’m not sending hitmen to his house or paying off 12 year olds to TP the place. Sigh…whatever. I’ll let him have this one unless the bullshit meter starts getting too high.
So anyways, have any of you figured out how to get the message across that you couldn’t give 2 flying fucks enough to share their personal info? I’m an adult. I have better things to do than to ruin anyone’s life or harass them. Also, WE HAVE NO MUTUAL FRIENDS! Who am I going to tell? Jesus? Tf? lol thanks guys