I have been dating him for 3 months and we only became official about 2 weeks ago. He has upset me with his style of communication and I lashed out at him recently and said some things I regret. We make up but at the same time we have had two arguments this week and I just feel stressed and sad about it? I have anxious attachment so it could be that and I will say that I have trauma from the past with bullying etc so he has accidentally hit a couple of nerves with me and I’ve told him that. We always work it out but at the same time why is it so hard? Why do I get upset so much? For example we havent even kissed and thats something that has bothered me.
Ive seen on Reddit tthat people didnt start arguing until years or 6+ months in and I guess I’m concerned about my relationship since it doesn’t feel like a honeymoon stage at all. It’s not been a smooth ride and I just don’t know what to do. I have really strong feelings for him but at the same time it hurts
tldr first relationship 21F 22M and we are having a lot of disagreements in what is usually the honeymoon phase. Concerned as to whether we are incompatible despite making up as its stressful and draining