THIS IS AN OPINION…NO ONE IS TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO. I cannot make you do anything, its your life, choose to take my advice or don't, I honestly do not care, this is just my personal opinion. I am not an authority on anything.
I think too many times people engage in dates just to see what happens and its a waste of time for both people.
No I AM NOT SAYING YOU NEED TO HAVE STRONG FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE TO GO OUT WITH THEM, obviously that is unrealistic to expect…what I am saying is that there should be a good reason you're going out with them and they are going out with you. Whatever you value, whatever that may be, go out for that reason.
Women, stop accepting dates from men JUST BECAUSE they are nice and or JUST BECAUSE asked you out and you're bored when you are not attracted to them. It's pointless, you MORE THAN LIKELY will not change your mind and you're just giving him false hope. Be realistic with yourself, who you are and what you want. Are you the slow burn type or do you need instant attraction? Please stop pretending that this situation is gunna be different by giving yet another guy a shot who you aren't actually interested in and MOST LIKELY won't ever be interested in.
Men, stop taking women out who give you the bare minimum of interest. NO SHE DOESNT HAVE TO SCREAM FROM THE HEAVENS THAT SHE ADORES YOU, it's not about her being 100% sure about you, that's obviously unrealistic, but what you should require is some reasoning for why she would like to go out with you. Does she think you are handsome? Smart? Charming? Do your interests align? Ask her why she wants to go on the date with you, and where she thinks you two might align. If she's not meeting you because you genuinely intrigue her you are MOST LIKELY not going to magically convince her on the date and you are wasting your time, money and energy. Ask questions, get an understanding of why this date is happening and why she might be interested in you, give yourself the best chance to succeed.
Like i said it's just an opinion take it for what you will but ultimately I think everyone would benefit and be better off when it comes to dating. Can't wait to read replies from people who didn't read what I said and just get mad and reply with no rhyme or reason, I'm stoked 🤣. Have an awesome day dating advice reddit!!