My (21 F) partner (22 M) have been together for 6 months and is always busy with work. He works 6 days a week from 9-8pm and comes back around 9pm ish. Usually he works at a bar on weekend evenings as well. I’m at college full time and work on Saturdays or Fridays. We only get to see each other properly on Sundays and I spent a weeknight at his house (I go over and he basically shuts his eyes as soon as I get there which I understand).
If I’m being honest, I’m finding this schedule pretty hard as we started the relationship 6 months ago when we both had some free time. It’s starting to feel like I don’t have a boyfriend anymore! On Sundays when we meet up, he’s oftentimes too tired to have a fun day or good conversation:(
I’ve already expressed that I’m finding this schedule challenging for our relationship and asked if this is a long term thing, which he said for the foreseeable future: yes.
Kinda stuck on what to do. I don’t want to break up with him, I love him and the time we do spend together. However, it is very much starting to feel like I don’t have a boyfriend. If I bring it up to him again I’m afraid I’ll sound like a brat who doesn’t respect his adult job😅
Any advice