I’m afraid I might of overdone my affection. My SO and I just got into a relationship and we contact and call each other adorable a lot. Today she sent me a video of her walking back home and I replied with “I didn’t expect to say this but even your walking is cute”, and she replied with “😭😭😭😭😭😭 you’re lovebombinggg”. English isn’t really my native tongue so I thought the word “love bombing” was smth positive just to find out just now it was not at all positive. Have I overdone my affection and what are some precautions I can take?
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She sent you a video of herself walking home? Is this even a thing people do?
She’s telling you outright that she is feeling loved bombed. Slow your role if you want a future.
Ask her, not us. “Hey, how do you feel about the compliments I give you? Do you even like receiving compliments or words of affirmation?”
The tone of her text seems positive, I think she finds it endearing, but if you’re really worried about I’d ask