I’m completely mortified, we’ve been married 16yrs and have two kids. I just found out my spouse has been sending nudes (some I’ve sent, others were taken without my knowledge) to his best friend. I’m currently in the process of gathering all the texts for evidence in case this goes far. how do I approach this conversation and is it even something a person can move past? it’s totally blew my trust in him. I should add it’s not the first time he’s been sneaky (texting two girls behind my back) but it’s been years since he’s done anything like that so this completely hit me out of the blue.