I had made a comment on another post, since it gained a lot of traction – I'm making it a post.
You've to open your mouth and let people around you know you're actively looking for romance – yes everyone is but actually vocalising it clearly makes it a completely different space.
Expressing one's romantic/sexual interests in a healthy way isn't something we learnt (which is why we're in this situation). So speak out.
If you're in a similar situation, follow along.
I kinda did something that worked for me at 29.
I asked a girl out and when she rejected me, I asked her to introduce her friends 😂
To my surprise, she did and I got into amazing relationships, I even asked those girls to introduce me to their friends.
Obviously I was very friendly and respectful but very very clear I didn't know anyone at all.
Some didn't even believe me, some were just shocked but many kinda understood my situation.
I went with literally no social life to having no time to prioritize.
The girl that rejected me is my best friend now lol – we talk daily about every damn thing in the world❤️
I suggest you to do the same. Just ask the ones you already know to introduce you their girl – friends.
I know it feels overwhelming since you've not introduced that dynamic but you've to do it bro.
You've to let people know you're actively looking for romance.
It's uncomfortable but better than staying single wishing you did this for another 5 years.
Good luck ❤️🤞