Hi everyone I know the title itself is very vague and I had a few questions other than what is enclosed on the title so to give further context:
|(24F) am casually seeing a guy who is about ten years older and we had sex for the first time last week. It was great and all but one thing I noticed was it took him an awful long time for him to cum. I would say around 30-40 minutes of actual penetration excluding foreplay.
And after chatting and cuddling for a bit that turned into round two and three… (which was great) but he couldn't seem to cum. He told me that it takes him quite a longer while to cum the second time due to some medications that he is taking. I partially believed him but also got scared that it was because he didn't find pleasure in the intercourse itself or because he was too used to sex and got numbed to the feeling since he might be seeing other people (idk).
Overall, the whole session lasted a whooping 5 hours…
Obviously we did cuddle, chit chat and everything but mostly were making out and doing things. Frankly speaking it's my first time being in bed with someone for this long.
I am assuming he enjoyed since we're still texting and he wants to see me.(*disclaimer – i'm just worried about his end since I'm more of a giver when it comes to sex.
Seeing the other person enjoy themselves turn me on.
Hence, why I wanted to make sure this wasn't just a one way enjoyed type of situation!)
TLDR:! For the few questions that I have:
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Do some men take longer to cum (Is 30-40 mins of penetration normal…?) What might cause it? Is there a correlation of how many women he's been with in the past/currently or more to do with grip?
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I know it's a given that the second is definitely gonna be harder for a man to cum but his reasoning on medication – is there a higher chance it is because of medication or else? I'm just scared he didn't find me attractive or something
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Is 5 hours in bed normal…okay maybe not normal but how many of u guys experienced 5 hours or more?
Cuddling/in between pillow talks/ make out sessions included! Is this a positive?
Thank you for your inputs in advanced!