to preface, i do NOT have a weight gain/overfeeding fetish or whatever it’s called. i do not wish to harm my partner in any way. it’s actually kinda the opposite.
i get really turned on by cooking for my partner and having them eat the food i’ve cooked. it’s the thought of me helping them satiate their hunger in a healthy and pleasant way that’s sexy to me. putting effort into the food, it being good for them and balanced (their bloodwork shows deficiencies in multiple vitamins as well as iron), and them liking its taste, etc.
my partner has already noticed that i like cooking for them (which is considered “unusual” for a guy) and prefer cooking my own meal to takeout. i’m afraid that they will inevitably notice that i get hornier after they eat my food.
i don’t want it to be weird, so i think i gotta tell them. but i feel like whatever i say is gonna sound weird anyway. how do i present this info to them?
tldr: i get turned on when i feed my partner nice food that i make for them. how do i confess to this being my kink without making it sound worse than what it is?