Necessary context: My mum HATES weed, she hates all drugs, but since weed is so common most of her vitriol is targeted towards it. I get medical weed and used to be a daily smoker but i’d always respect my mums rules and never kept weed in the house or even paraphernalia.
So i’ve only been seeing my boyfriend for about 2 months, he’s technically not my boyfriend as in officially but we’ve both agreed we want a relationship and taking things slow.
we initially met at a rave and i told my mum about him pretty much straight away as i spent most of the rave and went back to his after. my mum was skeptical since she also hates raves but didn’t really have an opinion as all she really knew was his name.
the next week or something i stayed at his house, and we did smoke indoors a couple times which is super stinky and when i went home my mum picked up on it and fully went off on me and him, calling us both junkies and screaming that i’m not her daughter and whatnot and forbade me to see him.
i told her politely that her morals aren’t my morals, and i’m not going to stop seeing someone over weed + i’m nearly 20 and i can realistically date whoever i want.
fast forward a couple of weeks though and im still seeing him and every time ive been seeing him/ at his house maybe twice a week, my mum is extremely moody and downright just horrible to me over him.
for example, today she binned freshly washed boxers that i’d bought my brother for christmas that he’d only just got round to using because she thought they were my boyfriends and said she’s gonna do everything in her power to “show” me everyday how much she disagrees with our relationship.
Idk what to do bc i don’t wanna end it with him, he’s kind to me, and i’m a smoker myself so i see absolutely 0 issue with what he’s doing, but at the same time my mum is creating such a toxic environment at home, constantly hurling insults at me calling me a gold digger and a shallow bitch because my bf comes from money and things like that.