20yo, Male
I'm currently in my first sexual relationship and I'm having trouble with some stuff
When fingering I have trouble inserting a second finger, it's almost like it's not fitting, it's just straight up not possible, I cant do it, when I try to communicate this with her she's like "huh, let me see" and then instantly puts in 3 of her's (our palms/fingers are almost the same, size wise)
And when I try exactly after her, the fingers just don't fit.
My tounge game is fine, haven't had any problems there, yet
Now, penetration
This one's just funny, I can't for the life of me fit it in, it's like there is no fucking opening, anywhere, even when she tries to guide it, nothing happens, she can't guide it in, I can't find the opening myself, she gets sad, thinking there's something wrong with her, I'm sad cause she's sad and cause it's embarrassing for me to not be able to do a simple thing
It's not really impacting our relationship for now, but it's not an uncommon topic of discussion either
Please, I need advice