I (18m) don’t want to “miss opportunities” when it comes to dating but to be honest I tend to see more negatives than positives in terms of a romantic relationship.
I’m not saying pursuing a relationship is pointless but it seems like more effort than it’s really worth, but I can’t say I give up on it despite how much easier it’d be because I don’t want to potentially miss something good in the vast space of bad.
And it’s like only see and experience the worst parts of romantic relationships but I’ll admit the experiences are due to my own actions, anyways if anyone has some kind of method for holding on to hope lemme know.