Hers is quality time (especially parallel play, comfortable silence, doing events together- our first date was going to be cooking together but meeting her roommates and her plus being in an unfamiliar area made me hesitant so now she’s showing me around her side of the city).
Mine is acts of service and physical touch (I’m a huge gift giver as well but I feel like that plays into my act of service thing more cause I only give gifts if it’ll make my loved ones lives easier or it’s something they’ve been wanting).
She wants to take it slow on physical on touch but she adores my actions or at least my smooth word plays.
So far the ways I’ve been doing have been:
– Giving her some of my unwanted rings (I’m a gold girlie and she loves silver, and at first she was hesitant to accept until I framed it as a way of holding hands since it’s from my hand to hers, and she her grin was so enchanting
– I made her those pipe cleaner flowers with my perfume attached since she’s in college and can’t have candles or has time for flowers (….AND SIGH I MEANNNN SHE ALSO told me I smelled good and it got to my head- BUT NOT THE MAIN REASON I SWEAR, plus she like said she wanted to spend more time with me but couldn’t cause of studies but now she’s stuck thinking about me and my perfume)
But I need more ways. So I’ve come here.
Any suggestions?