Sorry for this long post I’m literally so awkward when it comes to romance and really want to do better when it comes to allowing myself to put myself out there. For context, I’m a 20 y/o female and have only just recently started dipping my toes in the dating scene. I don’t drink or smoke at all and honestly have zero romantic experience/attention apart from a middle school boyfriend…like I only had my first kiss with a diff guy I met at the club (also first time at a club) after going on a fishing date with him but felt super uncomfortable after about how touchy he was so early on. Felt literally zero spark and we ghosted each other. But I recently went to the club a second time and this guy came over to talk to me after we made eye contact. He was really handsome and complimented my hair + dress, then saw I was drinking water and joked that he couldn’t buy me a drink, but I said he could dance with me. Ended up dancing with him and he actually asked if his hand placement was okay + leaned down and asked if he could kiss me (fishing date guy just kissed me w/ out asking). I asked how drunk he was (because I’m literally stone cold sober) and he said not THAT drunk, so I decided to kiss him but like 2 pecks then said that’s all he gets. He also asked for my number after we paused dancing and I was talking w/ my friend. Then I kinda had to leave quickly since my friend’s bf + his friend wanted to leave so I told him I was leaving and said “Text me if you want” to which he said “I wanna.” Anyway so now we’re trying to plan a time to go out to a local bar/restaurant downtown since they serve mocktails (lol); honestly just need advice on going on a first date with a guy that u actually find attractive. Outfit ideas? Questions I should ask? Idk please help me.


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