Every day I (31M) can feel myself becoming more cynical and bitter toward dating and women, and it sucks. I've tried so, so, so hard to avoid being that kind of person. I've strived to be a positive force toward other people rather than myself. But I can feel that breaking down inside of me as I see everyone around me in a relationship, or the other side with people who are single and also cynical and bitter about it. Idk what to do. I don't want to be an incel, though I don't align with certain thoughts of incels, such as thinking that men are owed sex by women, etc.