I haven't slept in two days, so I may not even be coherent at this point… and I have to leave for work in 2 hours.
My husband snores. BAD. He has a CPAP, refuses to use it. He says it doesn't work (he lies, it works great). Generally, it's not an issue because he works nights and I work days. He works three nights a week. Two nights ago he decided he wanted to go to sleep at 2 AM. Woke me right up out of a dead sleep with his chainsaw on a knotty log snoring. I got pissed. He got pissed. He slammed a bunch of doors in the house, waking up in the kids.
He was so exhausted he says.
So last night, I decide to sleep on the couch, so he can have the bedroom. I'm already there. Sleeping for over an hour. He decides he's tired and goes to sleep on the OTHER FUCKING COUCH. Wakes me up out of a dead sleep with his snoring.
I told him to go upstairs. An argument ensues. He says he's filing for divorce (because according to him, I clearly don't want him around). I told him fine. He makes six figures, I barely crack $20,000/year. I told him he gets the house, the kids, the pets, everything, because I won't be able to survive, let alone take care of anyone or anything else.
I moved some of my things into my car this morning (I have no where else to go and I REALLY NEED SOME SLEEP, even if it is in the trunk of my car).
I am so damn tired.
Edit: I'm adding additional information for context, this is not a new problem. I have talked to him. Repeatedly. For years. I have done all the reassuring that I still love him, I still want to be with him, etc. He always takes me needing to sleep in another room as this sign that I don't love him and I don't want to be married him. When I say I'm tired, I mean TIRED, in every way possible, down to my bones.