10 years married and over time it’s been trending this way. Now here I am. No more foreplay or passionate love making. She wants it rough, hard and fast. It’s like she can’t do it any other way and loses interest or get frustrated. 10 seconds of warm-up and I start to hear the words “come on baby harder”.
It’s a lot of work and if I’m being honest I can’t do it hard enough to satisfy her. Not sure anyone could! So I’m in this situation that is leaving me perplexed. I’ve talked to her about it and her response is “that’s just what I need to enjoy it and I can get my mind into it any other way”.
So how common is this and do you have any suggestions on how I can better my ability to satisfy her? Why do some women like it so rough?