Slept on couch
I Came to bed at 4:30 bc I was sad
He Doubled down on saying he regretted bringing me to his enlistment and said I was upset about that (him saying he regretted it) because I’m selfish and make everything about myself.
He Said he didn’t miss me when we broke up just missed the convenience.
He Said when my family is together we look at our phones, his family has constant human interaction
He Said i need a flip phone I said you were in your phone all day and he said for the first time in a long time and I said but not your game and he said that just depends how long you’re here.
He Said I do nothing good on my phone. I Said it’s full of great things my tik tok and I use it for school he laughed at me and I said ok stop and he said why? bc that was embarrassing
“ all you had to do when you came in here was put me to sleep but you’re dramatic childish and selfish”
Said I didn’t want to put myself out of the way for someone who talks to me like that and he said get lost.
he Said why are you still here (as in our bedroom) I said I’d do anything to make us work
He said Do you see how stupid you sound this is generational retardation. (Sorry for the language, this just is what he said)
He said You’re so nasty. Nasty nasty person. Everyone I tell you how I feel about something, you lose your shit. God forbid I’m not allowed to not like you sometimes story of our fucking relationship. (He said all of this which made it confusing because I’ve tried to talk to him for weeks about how I’ve felt and he’s dismissed me and went out with friends or got on game so I couldn’t talk to him)
This is in response to me saying this was both our bed not just his. “You think you’re that important you’re not. You are a guest here my family brought you in you will act like it. Lose that entitled mindset”.
I ended up stopping responding and just laid on my phone. He said yea we’re done. We’re definitely done. I didn’t really say anything then he took all covers off of me. I started crying. I tried to grab blankets back and he told me what was I doing and to go find other blankets. I started sobbing at this point and grabbing the blankets continued. I didn’t say anything just kept trying to grab me he pushed me and then bent my wrist aggressively. I caved. I said sorry for not responding and crying and it became where he said if I lied on my pillow he’d talk to me if I calmed down he’d talk to me. he said things like I’m always excited to see you until I actually see you and when I said he hurt me he said no he didn’t he doesn’t do that. And then for me having that moment of sobbing and trying to take the blankets from him over and over probably 10x I feel so bad about
Has anyone experience anything like this in a relationship?