I’ll start off by saying I think I’m crazy but there is an age gap so you never know. My boyfriend has a great job, home and nice things that cost a lot of money. I have always lived like I wont have a next paycheck. I have no problem eating dollar menu food and ramen. Having the bare minimum in no problem.
Anyways, We met while I was getting my third job and he asked me on a date. A lot happened and all of sudden we visited his home in Florida and started taking random trips. Long story short after about 6 months, I threw all three jobs away, moved across country all the way to Florida where I don’t know anyone. I have no job and I’m allowing him to put me back in college classes while we’ve only been dating for a few months. He wanted me back in school and to essentially be a house wife. Not his words but that’s what I assume my role would be because he’s a very traditional, Christian man. He wants to get married and have kids. And that’s all a dream to have, essentially every worry off my back but i feel like I’m being trapped. I could just be paranoid but I feel like everything he’s done for me could be used against me and id have to rely on him. Especially since I can’t pay him back, it would be a life time before I could. I grew up struggling and my mom always told me to be able to take care of myself and never rely on anyone especially a man. Which can be a bit much. But he is a good man, we just argue sometimes. Thoughts?