My crush is my neighbor and we have had brief conversations where he is always nice and friendly but if I suggest him coming in for a coffee he declines. I know people describe him as shy and unassuming.
We always wave in passing. He sees me on the dating apps and has never swiped (nor have I as I think i want something to happen irl). I added him on Instagram and it took him about 6 weeks to accept/follow me back. I could see in that time of waiting he was liking mutual followers posts etc. If I post he does not like it but he views my stories.
Like if he wanted to…. would he have made a move? I have tried timing to bump into him and always miss him and i think if he wanted to bump into me he has an opportunity every day as I leave at the same time usually before him.