I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and a half and we haven’t slept together yet but I’m considering it. My big concern with it is that we do the deed and then that becomes a leading aspect of our relationship. It’s not that I don’t want it, it’s just that I want to make sure there’s a deeper connection outside of physical aspects. We’ve gone on some good dates and have good conversations although they’re mostly over the phone, our in person dates often end up with us making out and not talking a ton. I think I’m worried about the possibility that I’ll sleep with him and then we’ll break up or he’ll only love me for my body. I have reasons to believe he does really love me right now such as him taking me out and meeting my family and planning for me to meet his soon. I just need some reassurance and advice on what to do about my worries around this