We’ve been dating for a little over a month. Recently, he told me his friend said I looked happier and that I’ve been eating more lately. After that, he laughed and said, “Fat,” but then added that he was joking and called me his baby.
I joked back about getting fatter from eating the snacks he bought me. He then said that he likes fit girls. That made me uncomfortable, so I asked what he meant by “fit.” He said that how I am right now is actually okay, but it felt a bit forced rather than reassuring.
For context, I used to be chubby and dieted quite extremely to get to where I am now, and he knows this. I’m still sensitive about my weight and past body image issues, and I generally avoid talking about it even though I haven’t explicitly told him how sensitive I am.
Am I just being overly sensitive, or were his comments careless?
Edit: I had a conversation with him and he felt extremely apologetic and was glad that I told him. So I guess it's solved then. Thank you everyone for your advice!!