We've been together for 7 months, I have big goals in life, I wanna go to college and move out of my parents house and I want to succeed, he still lives with his grandma, he's 400lbs and dosnt try to loose weight and it's slowly killing him he already has high blood pressure but it's almost like he dosnt care, he has no goals in life he dosnt plan on going to collage or having a career and says he dosnt see how he's going to move out. Intimacy is a big thing with me and it's really hard becsuse of his weight. He's done nothing wrong he's a very sweet boy but I feel like he's holding me back from my goals and accomplishments, I still want to stay friends because we were friends for almost a year before we got together but I'm just really stressed. I still love him but don't want to continue being held back. I hope I'm not a pos for this but I just don't know how to do it, I feel terrible for breaking his heart