(f, 28) I've had multiple boyfriends over the last couple of years and haven't been able to achieve orgasm. Not with toys or on my own. For context, I've never been able to achieve a real o with masterbation, but in my early twenties I had my first orgasm with a partner. Since then I've been able to do it (often with toys but sometimes without). The problem is, it's been 3 years and 3 boyfriends and I still can't orgasm. It really takes a toll on the men I date (they feel bad they can't get me there) and I've tried everything. Eating out, lots of foreplay etc etc. even with toys it's really hard to get close and impossible to get over the finish line.
Any advice? Has this happened to you? Am I doomed?