My partner (M) and I (F) communicate openly about sex, and I know he loves things slow and sensual. We tell each other what works best for us, so all I’m looking for here is some inspiration, mood enhancers, and maybe pro-tips on how to make things even deeper, more present, and more connected.
What small gestures, touches, or moments help build that slow, sensual energy for you? What creates anticipation and closeness?
And also: what makes it shift from “nice” to “really intense” for you? Is it pacing, eye contact, breathing together, or something else entirely?
Tell me all the subtle things that make slow sex feel powerful and alive.