The TLDR: my husband a lost cause which sucks & while I want to just up & leave cold & go no contact I don’t want to leave him high & dry. I also want to know if there’s any legal obstacles.
I’ll keep it brass tax if you’re reading on & as much objectives as possible advice would be amazing ! – M33 married to my husband M36 now for 3 years now, no kids, 2 dogs (one mine) & no businesses – I want to leave. I’m past the hating him phase of it all..yelling & hating myself for yelling. The draining cycle Etc. it ultimately isn’t about him now..I just want to leave because I’m ready to live again! Workout, decorate and laugh with people etc 🥰 I feel warm just thinking about it – I’m so ready to leave! And embrace the world ! Ive planned for within the next couple months. I’ve offered him a divorce but he’ll ignore me if I even bring tht up. Very difficult to work with & he won’t try in our marriage.
Ideally I want to leave him while he’s away to avoid any confrontation (I hate that 😣) pack up in a day & jet. Leave the divorce papers & maybe some I’m sorry flowers & enough for one months rent (my half) & enough for a years worth of dog insurance so the puppy is taken care of.
Is that fair ? We’re just regular hourly workers so I want to make sure I have enough for my therapy post divorce therapy & my own dog. That’s gonna be top priority.
Is there any legal consequences to ghosting a spouse ? I mean it’s not like I’m leaving him on the hook financially & atleast this way if he still won’t sign the papers I’m atleast out of his house & don’t have to deal with the draining headache. No assets (aside from my diamond tiara belonging to an ancient queen) he can act out if he likes but as long as I’m away & dealing through lawyers I’m good I want to do this right & keep all of our hands clean –
HELP ! give me a roadmap !