Long story short i'm living at my parent's house along with my older brother (my parents don't live here, they only come during the weekends) and my boyfriend keeps inviting himself to my parent's house when I never invited him to come over. I used to live alone in my own apartment (that I pay rent for) and i'd have him come over all the time. But since this is my parent's home and i'm living here with my brother, I find it really disrespectful(? not sure if that's the right word) that he keeps trying to come to my parent's home i'm living in.
He knows that i'm very careful with introducing my boyfriends to my family because I come from a very strict asian household and my father has explicitly said to not bring any boyfriends over or introduce them to my parents unless i'm engaged or 100% certain that i'll get married to this guy. We're not engaged or anything, and him knowing all this, I feel like it should be very clear that he's not really welcome into any of my family parameters whether that be meeting my parents or coming to my parent's house. It's starting to piss me off that him knowing all this and the fact that my brother is currently living in this house with me, he still has the audacity to ask if he can come over (and even sleep nights here). Am I overreacting? Or do I need to tell him straight up how I feel about this? I'm just annoyed because to me given all the information he has, it should be common sense to not just invite himself over… like I would never do that especially if i've never met his parents.. I would never just ask him if he can stay over at his parent's house without having met them because I find that very disrespectful. Thoughts?
Sorry for the ramble