When you make that last ditch effort to communicate and be the best possible partner, and you're told you succeeded, but there's no reciprocal effort or change?
You know what you're asking for is reasonable and normal, and they acknowledge this and agree to work on it… but don't?
Most of the time when people post about issues with intimacy they say everything else is great and it's never true and it isn't for me. Our working situation might make it easier for me to handle more housework but doing everything but your spouses' laundry while also handling %90 of all childcare that feels like an excuse.
You'd think with as much time we're required to spend apart there would be some interest in the time we're allowed together but I don't have an infinite scroll.