Hi everyone! I wanted to make this post to get some advice. I (26F) have been with my fiance (28M) for four years. Our relationship is pretty good although this incident has me second guessing getting married at the end of this year.
On New Year’s Eve I randomly woke up in the middle of the night with severe back pain, vomiting, chills and was just in the worse pain I have ever been in, in my entire life. My fiancé tried to help (getting water, meds etc) but when I said “Maybe I should go to the ER” he said no because I don’t have insurance. I didn’t really argue because i was in too much pain so I just kind of fought through it. The next day I took myself to the ER via uber since his comment from the night before still bothered me. I also had no idea what was happening to me so I was concerned. Turns out I had a kidney stone. Fiancé took me home and we talked about the situation and how it made me feel but I still feel off since I also have a chronic illness that could ruin my life if it gets too bad.
Any advice?
*Edit for clarity: I recently got kicked off my parents insurance due to aging out. My new insurance starts tomorrow.