I (64F) do not EVER want to give my husband (45M) a bj. This morning I am relaxing on the couch on this New Year's morning. He is waiting to go to work. He walks up to me and asks me if I want to give him bj before he goes to work. Um, no. For so many reasons. We have been together for 16 years. What makes any man think a woman wants to do this, especially with nothing to gain for me. This is totally man only pleasure. I just wanted to punch him.