I’m 28, my husband is 30. I’m pretty unhappy in my marriage at this point. Dead bedroom, no time spent together. We don’t have conversations. We’ve been together 12 years and haven’t had a great time. I’m afraid of leaving because I feel like every marriage will turn out this way.
This week I’ve wanted to have sex after months without, he tells me he doesn’t want to. He tells me he is never horny. I finally get him to get off of his game long enough to. He then hops back on.
We argue a lot. Mostly him griping me out while I ask him if he can just stop. I always ask him why he’s so upset. My marriage sucks.
Edit- my husband did cheat on me this year. With a girl he met online. I saw their messages, very sexual. She sent him all kinds of videos of machine toys being used on her and he sent things back. He talked to her and opened up to her a lot as well.
He claimed to still love me and want a life together, saying he wouldn’t cheat again.